- Last Online
- Online now!
- 5′ 4″ (1.63m).
- Body Type
- Not at all
- Atheism and laughing about it
- Graduated from college/university
- Has cats
Okay, identity talk over. My style is typically a beautifulgenderfuck combination of butch/femme and all that’s in between. My queerness manifests in an attraction to people across the gender spectrum but especially the gender extremes- whether its a hunky butch or a delicate femme get ready for all kinds of switching and fucking with gender roles in the bedroom. Typically I’m mostly attracted to women, especially if you’re looking for something more than sex.
I’m looking to have some dating and/or fun & creative sexual exploration with cool open-minded kinky queer people utilizingsafe sexand radical consent. As of now I am only interested inpoly, non-monogamous, or more casual types of relationships.
Working full-time at a non-profit in the HIV field
Finding opportunities to go out in drag
Baking tasty (usually vegan) cookies and cake balls
Going to the beach (and finding friends who like to play In the water)
Working part time at a shelter for homeless youth
Going to the library
Eating ice cream
Doing all the talking and processing
Sending letters and packages through USPS snail mail
Always seeking learning
Sleeping through my alarms
Applying to grad school
Practicing positive youth development
Acknowledging my privilege
Honoring people’s unique histories
Seeking empowerment for myself and others
Critiquing the system
Looking for fiction book suggestions
Seeking Chicagoans to play cards (and especially euchre) with me
I have a music dilemma- I can never find just the right music to listen to. I like a variety and I’m taking suggestions and requesting mix tapes! Make me one!
Recent good eats: Piece of Cake flavored ice cream, Ethiopian food from Ras Dashen, free food, homemade cake balls (made by yours truly), salted caramel anything, dark chocolate, sushi
1. Currently, I don’t drink
2. I’m a kinky switch–top/bottom, dom/sub with all kinds of dirty fantasies waiting to be played out. With women I usually play the sub role and with men the dom, but I’m willing to switch that up as we get to know each other.
3. I’m a squirter 😉
- Ages 21–40
- Near me
- For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex
Please keep in mind that I’m genderqueer/gender non-conforming so anyone identifying as straight probably shouldn’t message me because that indicates to me that you’re not really seeing me for who I am. I need someone who can respect boundaries and has some concept of what it means to live outside the gender binary.
***If you do not know what genderqueer/gender non-conforming is, please google it, and do not ask me to explain myself to you. But a helpful hint- don’t call me girl, lady, miss, woman etc. that’s not who I am.***